Catholic families strive in a unique way to prepare our hearts and homes to celebrate the birth of our savior Jesus Christ as we commence the season of Advent. In the weeks leading up to Christmas, we have a unique opportunity to enjoy devotions and customs that will help us to truly embrace this special season.
During the hubbub of holiday parties and trips to the mall, it seems especially crucial to pause as a family nightly and embrace quiet prayer as a means towards helping our children keep the true nature of this time in the proper perspective. This can be as simple as lighting a candle in the center of the family dinner table and pausing for quiet reflection prior to dinner. Advent is also a time to participate in the sacrament of Penance. Most parishes offer a family Penance service during the season of Advent. Family devotions might also include increased attendance at daily Mass, time spent in Eucharistic adoration, prayer of the Rosary as a family or time spent reading scripture together each evening.
To help your family “luxuriate” in the Advent season, consider embracing some of the following time-honored Advent traditions in your home.
Advent Wreath – Create your own simple wreath of evergreen branches and decorate the wreath with four candles – three violet and one rose. The first candle is lit on the First Sunday of Advent, with subsequent candles lit on successive Sundays. Visit the USCCB web site for a family Advent wreath blessing.
Advent Calendar - Whether store-bought or homemade, Advent calendars offer children a visual frame of reference for counting down the days until Christmas. Most prefabricated Advent calendars begin on December 1 and allow your family to open a “door” for each day until Christmas. My favorite calendars have a daily scripture reference or service idea waiting behind each door. For a fun family craft, create your own Advent calendar and brainstorm as a family ways in which you can use your calendar to journey closer to Jesus.
Jesse Tree - The Jesse tree tradition finds it’s “roots” in the book of Isaiah. To create your own family Jesse tree, find a large branch that is bare of leaves. For each day of Advent a small ornament is placed on the tree, tracing the lineage of Jesus Christ. A relevant scripture passage is highlighted. Ornaments can be found online, printed, and colored and decorated by your children.
Many other wonderful traditions are prevalent during the season of Advent. During the month of December we also enjoy traditions surrounding the Feast of St. Nicholas, Our Lady of Guadalupe, Las Posadas, and Simbang Gabi. Regardless of the manner in which you choose to observe Advent as a family, make time during this season to ponder the miracle of the Baby Jesus with your children – memories are made, hearts are brightened and souls are prepared.
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